What about generosity?


Not much has changed since Jesus watched a rich man and a widow give their offerings at the temple. We still think generosity has to do with the amount given rather than the amount left. Jesus disabused us of that notion.

However, in the intervening 2000 years we’ve still managed to find ways of reducing and minimising the force of his teaching. We too easily identify ourselves with the poor widow and not often enough with the rich man. There are a host of reasons for that, no doubt, many of them will have the appearance of legitimacy. It is legitimate to save for your future or your children’s, it is legitimate to invest into homes, businesses, family times, hobbies and to ensure that rising prices are taken into account but because a majority in our churches are likely able to do all of those things, that in itself must mean we must see ourselves in the position of the rich man and not the widow.

The widow was vulnerable and defenceless, they and orphans because of the insecurity of their position receive special favour and protection from God. An elderly widow was often amongst the poorest of the poor. From this situation she was willing to give. Generosity had found a new poster girl and an unlikely one at that.

In the last half century many writers have challenged Christians about our attitude to money and we haven’t really taken much notice. Evangelicals in particular find themselves in a strange position – their giving is often far above average, (because they’ve become attached to the principle of the tithe) but sometimes far below the spirit of generosity. It seems odd to me that levels of giving would remain static while standards of giving rose dramatically. Somewhere along the line we saw that an old testament law favoured us more than a new testament principle and opted for the former. Jesus warned us that wealth is deceitful.

But the issue of generosity while never being less than the impact on my wallet goes much further, it reveals the condition of my soul. In my own life, I’ve noticed it is often the things I do without thinking that reveal to me how selfish I am. An unexpected gift comes in and I think about spending and rarely sharing, I easily entertain myself with things that count for little while missing the chance to act significantly. The reason is that I have become well conditioned in thinking of myself and thinking about anyone else (God included) before myself seems alien to me. It’s an effect of the fall that we hide from God by making ourselves the centre of our attention.

My hope for my baby son, is that I can introduce him to the greater joy of giving before he figures out the lesser joy of receiving. If you asked children which is best giving or getting, how many would answer giving? But giving IS the greater joy, giving back to the one who gave to us, giving to others to bless them or provide for them, giving releases me and frees me and changes lives. Why do I not give more?

So I’m increasingly coming to the conclusion that a simple life for me isn’t just about reducing my carbon footprint, but something my heart needs. I want a richer life and that means giving. I want to be like Jesus and that means giving, I want to be blessed by God and that means giving. So I don’t want to work out how to live on less but work out how to give more.


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  1. Powerful sermon on the Grace of Giving I found online:

    A Sermon on
    Giving

    (St. Paul’s
    Cathedral 7/2/99)

    If you look at
    the Order of Service, you will see that this sermon will be followed by a hymn,
    during which the collection will be taken. I want to consider the question, why
    do we have a collection in the service? I would add immediately, it is not my purpose
    to incite you to give more; I am, rather, interested in the significance of the
    fact. We might put the problem like this: it is curious that collections occur
    in almost every church service, and yet it is not the case that all aspects of
    the management and mechanics of running a church and a congregation are
    represented in the liturgy. So why does money feature?

    This cathedral
    represents one end of a spectrum. My job is in a Cambridge college chapel, at
    the opposite end of the spectrum in vastness of responsibility, and the
    collection there is taken discretely, generally only mentioned obliquely, and
    distributed in its entirety to a number of charities, chosen for their
    worthwhileness. The chapel is wonderfully independent of financial burdens; we
    do not have to worry directly about raising money for restoration, maintenance
    and so forth, and the discretion as to money is perhaps the counter-point to
    that. But in the majority of places of worship, in most churches, where finance
    has to be a constant theme, collections are focused upon, and a whole theology
    of giving and covenanting, stewardship and tithes enunciated. Both positions,
    discrete or prominent, reflect the needs and demands of the situation, and I’m
    not sure either gets to the bottom of why we have collections, why money
    obtrudes into the service.

    The basic
    discussion of such matters in the New Testament occurs in Paul’s Second Letter
    to the Corinthians, where he raised the question of a collection for the Church
    in Jerusalem. We tend to think of this collection as honouring the founding
    congregation, paying one’s dues, as it were. But, if you pause to think for a
    moment, it is even rather odd that the source and origin of the faith should
    show an apparent lack of vigour and need money. One might expect the Church in
    Jerusalem to be a missionary church, in the jargon (it was, of course),
    providing funds and people to spread the Gospel, and correspondingly energetic
    and well-ordered in its own life. But it wasn’t quite like that. Because of the
    Temple, and the associated custom of giving alms, Jerusalem had, apparently,
    the biggest population of people who lived by begging in the ancient world.
    Religious sites have this effect: they attract beggars – in large part, because
    the people who go on pilgrimage are more likely to give away money. At home,
    they are sober citizens who know the value of money, but in these religious
    places, obligations to charity are writ large, and there are gathered objects
    of charity to exploit this. Giving to charity, alms-giving, we might note, is a
    thoroughly ambiguous business. And the problem that confronted the first
    Christian congregation, in Jerusalem, was that too many of its members came
    from the begging classes, and rapidly needed support. Hence, once the congregation
    took on the task of supporting their poor and needy members, the Church as a
    whole took on a beggarly aspect: it too looked pretty unrespectable and needing
    help.

    It is worth
    pausing further upon the ambiguities of charity. Considered from the human
    angle, alms-giving of any kind, including giving to collections, is a
    thoroughly messy business, shot through with what one might call ‘bad faith’.
    Not only do the recipients frequently seem undeserving, but also, as we have
    seen with the Church in Jerusalem, by associating with them one may become
    similarly tarnished. What is worse, one’s motives for giving are frequently
    murky: does one do it in order to reward oneself – with good feelings, with the
    recognition of others, with the sense of duty done, or of good achieved? And
    does one ever give more than one could afford? What would that mean, especially
    if salvation were involved?

    Now, we try to
    get round these problems by certain institutional techniques – so, while we may
    shamefacedly give to the odd beggar (usually because they remind us of our
    sons), in general we covenant to registered charities, who are accredited by
    the Charity Commissioners as being well-run and deserving. But the underlying
    ambiguities are not, by that, done away with. And the reason why they are not
    done away with is that all our reasonings, arguments and so forth, our attempts
    to balance motivations, needs, outcomes and so on, are all attempts at
    calculation, at balancing the books. Hence we give as much as we can afford,
    reckon the good we do, estimate the feelings mobilised, the ends achieved, even
    the salvation gained.

    Now, how does
    Paul argue for his collection for the Church in Jerusalem? He does not offer
    any moral pleading, that one should give, that it is a good cause and so forth;
    in brief, he does not calculate. Rather he says, God gave everything for a
    set of no-hopers and chancers without any good reason – other than his
    character, or who he is – and giving is how you join in with his character and
    action and purposes for the world.  I love
    this bit!

    Money is of
    course ambiguous: it is one of the principle sources of our earthly desires, it
    moves us, and it shares in our profound ambiguity, whether as donors or
    recipients. But, by grace, it may also be the means of grace, by which our
    collective lives are transformed into the life of Christ, by which the New Adam
    is born out of the Old. This new life erupts in the material of the old, so
    that giving generously, rather than calculating the odds, becomes a human
    possibility. God has acted in Christ, so it is possible for us to give
    generously.

    One should note
    that giving will be painful, just as God works through Christ crucified. For it
    is not natural to give away money: money is in some respects the life-blood of
    the Old Adam. That is its significance, but that is also why it can be a source
    of joy. Listen how Paul describes to the Corinthians the charity of the
    Macedonian Christians:

    ‘We want you to
    know, brethren, about the grace of God which has been shown in the Churches in
    Macedonia, for in a severe test of affliction, their abundance of joy and their
    extreme poverty have overflowed in a wealth of liberality on their part. For
    they gave according to their means, as I can testify, and beyond their means,
    of their own free will, begging us earnestly for the favour of taking part in
    the relief of the saints [in Jerusalem] – and this, not as we [Paul and Titus]
    expected, but first they gave themselves to the Lord and to us by the will of
    God’
    (2 Cor. 8:1-5)

    The Macedonians
    have seen giving money as a means of participation in grace. Paul expands the
    theme in these well-known words:

    ‘For you know
    the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake
    he became poor, so that by his poverty you might become rich’
    (2 Cor. 8:9)

    We should note
    that this giving of money is not simply the dissemination of money, its
    dispersal. Wealthy men in the Ancient World drew attention to their honour by
    having servants throw money to the crowds of paupers. Here there is a
    reciprocity of recognition. But for Paul, the giving of money contributes to
    the building of the unity of the body of Christ, and the praise that the
    recipients give God is part of that unity, from which we all benefit. Because
    we are transformed by grace, we give; others experience our gift as
    transforming, and themselves offer up praise, which in turn is experienced as
    grace for us. As Paul says:

    ‘I do not mean
    that others should be eased and you burdened, but that as a matter of equality
    your abundance at the present time should supply their want, so that their
    abundance may supply your want, that there may be equality’
    (2 Cor. 8:13f.)

    This is not a
    balancing of contribution and cost, an economy of calculation, but a matter of
    generosity, an economy of gift, whereby participation is a blessing for all,
    and recipients may benefit no less than givers. Indeed, it is hard to sort out
    who gives and who receives in Christ, once the pattern is begun.

    Two comments,
    and then a brief concluding remark. First, this notion of participation in
    grace contributing to the unity of the body of Christ actually explains
    something of how we decide where the money collected goes, the uses to which it
    is put. If the recipients – however dubious, in human terms – praise God (that
    is, it helps them to flourish), the givers – however shifty – share in that
    blessing. Second, this gives some way of grasping what underlies the debates
    about the remission of world debt and the Jubilee. It is not simply a matter of
    calculation: the prime fact is the life of the New Adam is a new sociability, a
    solidarity founded upon generosity, or grace.

    So, to return to
    the simple question with which I began, why do we have collections in the
    course of worship, it is not primarily for good works, nor for supporting
    worthwhile projects, nor even for the building up of the unity of Christian
    believers (although the latter is very close to the mark); it is so that we
    have a mundane means of participating in grace, of imitating Christ, and of joining
    in the life of Christ, the new sociability, founded upon generosity, not
    calculation.

    Through the
    grace of Christ all of life, including money – with all its power and
    associated compulsions and dubious motivations – may be transformed and put to
    work for salvation: brought to share in the blessing of God – to whom, Father,
    Son and Holy Spirit, be all honour, glory, thanksgiving and praise, this day
    and for ever, Amen.

  2. Sorry about the length, but so much better to give this a context.

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